Billy Ma and Polar, David C. Scott for Canine Assistants
MILTON, GA. - It's the second day of camp. A dozen dogs are lined up in cages in the Canine Assistants classroom, waiting to get matched with the children they'll go home with at the end of two weeks. If all goes well, the dogs will love and protect these children for the rest of their lives.
Ever since the dogs were 3-day-old puppies being carried around in baby slings to get exposed to new sights and sounds, these specially bred retriever mixes have been prepped and trained for service. Now, at 18 months old, they're ready for their biggest test.
After two years of waiting, Billy Ma, 11, has traveled with his family from Ohio to the service-dog headquarters north of Atlanta. Some children wait five years or longer for an assistance dog. Billy has been placed on a priority list because he suffers from Duchenne muscular dystrophy, a muscle-wasting disease that affects mostly boys.
The matching process is a little bit of science and a lot of art, trainer Chris Casatelli of Canine Assistants explains. The organization compiles personality profiles of the recipients based on information from the children, their parents and their doctors. They look for dogs with similar dispositions and see how the pairs interact.
But as the trainers tell the families, the dogs hold the cards. Ultimately they are the ones who decide on the families with which they go home.
"A lot of times you can just throw all the personality profiles out the window and a match just happens right in front of you," Casatelli says.
A Big Dog Chooses Billy
At 68 pounds, Polar, a fair-colored Lab/retriever mix, is the largest dog of the bunch. Billy is one of the smaller children, short for his age because of the steroids he takes. He walks slowly, bearing his weight on his toes, with his chest pointed out – hallmarks of his disease -- and falls down frequently.
But when they meet, none of that matters. Unlike other dogs who pace around his wheelchair or seem excited or distracted, Polar is fixed on Billy.
Plus, he's strong enough and has been trained to wear a leather harness that Billy can grab onto to steady himself. As long as Billy doesn't try to ride Polar like a horse, the dog will always be able to bear his weight.
"My first thought was, 'Wow, this is a big dog for this little boy,'" says Casatelli, Polar's trainer. "But then when you see him walking with his balance harness, and Polar's very gentle and taking his time and going slow to accommodate William's slower gait, you just know he's picking up on what he needs."
With Polar's help, Casatelli hopes that Billy will be able to continue walking on his own.
Billy's parents want the dog to go to school with their son and assist him with tasks, such as picking things up from the floor. Above all, they want the dog to be his friend and help him stay connected to the world.
"Because of his muscle weakness, he cannot do like other children are doing, like running around and playing," Billy's dad, Steve Ma, says. "Maybe with the dog, they'll want to be around him more."
Getting Comfortable With Polar
A day after the match is made, Billy and his parents start to bond with Polar. They're nervous because they've never had a dog. Back at the hotel, Polar defecates on the carpet. The second night, the dog falls out of Billy's bed.
Their comfort level rises as the days pass. Billy's mom holds open Polar's lips and Billy brushes his teeth with poultry-flavored paste. They get used to having a dog under the dinner table, and Billy knows the gentle tone to use to get Polar to go to the bathroom.
On a group trip to Target, Polar dutifully plods alongside Billy's wheelchair while the boy examines video games, Legos and more toys. Other service dogs walks by, but aside from a casual glance, Polar keeps walking.
The only time Polar reacts is when Billy and his dad come upon a display of colored bounce balls and take some out to play with. When a ball bounces near Polar, he gets scared and starts to run.
"Are you OK?" Billy asks Polar, reaching down to pet the dog's fur. "No more scary balls."
A clerk tells Billy what his family already knows: he has the prettiest dog in the store.
Billy is looking forward to training and playing with Polar back in Ohio. But they still have a lot to learn about each other.
One day, toward the end of camp, the boy is sitting in his wheelchair and Polar puts his paws on the boy's thighs.
"What does that mean?" Billy asks Casatelli.
The answer comes quickly.
"That means 'I love you.'"
More Cute Stuff
- Lion Love (Daily Squee)
- This Cat Means Business (I Can Has Cheezburger)
- Zebra Tan! (I Has a Hotdog)
- Cat Guys or Dog Guys? (Petside)
- Reducing your Carbon Paw-Print (Discovery)
Sponsored Links
Add your comments
Advertisement







AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhhhhh Thank GOD for Polar!
Hey.. Donbro2..... You are an idiot, this story has nothing to do with your political agenda, go stand on your soapbox in front of Sarah's house so you'll be around more idiots.
Donbro2 - Listen, you teabagging moron, stop trolling every story looking for an opportunity to spread your malignant garbage. This is a beautiful story, and your presence is crapping it up.
I just love this story! Billy and Polar seem like they'll be good friends. I'm so impressed with the work of Canine Assistants.
This is the BEST group... not to discount other groups but I have personally helped raise money to donate to this particular group. Their work is tireless and I literally choke up when I tell people about their Seisure Alert dogs. I live in GA where this group hails from and have recommended them to many people for Canine Assistants.
My first german shepherd was a retired Guide Dog and cherished every minute with her. The work the companies do to train these dogs is unbelievable and support ALL of what they work for. Service dogs in general are unbelievable from the ones who can alert to seizures 2 hours before they happen to the little dogs that alert to an impendng diabetic coma.
Thank you for this WONDERFUL STORY !!!!
Rebecca Snider
central Georgia
This story is so touching. It brings tears to my eyes! And I don't even like dogs!
I know what you mean. With all the crud that's going on in this old world, we really need more stories like these.
I feel the same way. I don't like dogs at all, but if they can bring joy to someone who has nearly nothing to look forward to each day then how can you not like that. I am a tough guy who trains for MMA cage style fighting and I got teary eyed over this story. One of the biggest problems with this world is that everyone has this tough outer shell and it seems as if so many are afraid to show emotions. More people need to care about more than just themselves and have sympathy and empathy for others.
Wow...I can't ever trust anyone who doesn't like dogs. There's a reason they train dogs and not cats to become helpers.
If the child fell, the dog would do whatever he could to help the child get up.
A cat would just laugh at him.
Dogs rule!
God Bless Billy & Polar. Brings tears to my eyes also.
I'm not much of a dog person, I'm more into cats. But I do think it's wonderful that dogs can help people like this.
Great series - I am really interested in the work that Canine Assistants does. Thanks for the post!
What a beautiful story.And thats why dog is Mans best Friend.Id love to just hug Polar so much these beautiful animals are so adoring.Just vwish all humans had the love of Animals.Polar i love you so much for helping someone.
Jeffrey Tobias
great observation - if people only had the love that a simple dog continuosly displays
ya know animals can just sense things that we cant they love us unconditionally and are great companions what a wonderful gift this boy has with this dog im glad to see this story with so much crap in the world its nice to hear or read rather soem GOOD news for a change
Anita:
your comments on the Dog and Boy are wonderfull
so many people write such trash and hurtfull things
You truly have a good Heart, thank God for people like you!
Well said Anita, well said....
This is a wonderful story, too bad idiots like yutingke sneak their spam into it and bring trash into such nice messages.
I reported yutingke, I hope everyone else does too.
How does one contribute to this organization that provides service dogs to qualified individuals. didn't see address in article, although beautiful. thanks.
AMD you cannot ask for a better and loving story. I myself am alone and have a 17yr old pitbull who is the best friend i will ever have.. she is slow now but, still knows love and so do I.. Love for dogs. ps. yes report #2